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Edward Woo R.I.P.

Society of the Missionaries of Africa

Father Hugh Seenan, Provincial Delegate of the sector of Great Britain,
informs you of the return to the Lord of Father

Edward Woo

on Sunday, 9th June 2024 in London (Great-Britain)
at the age of 85 years, of which 55 years of missionary life
in Tanzania, Kenya and Great-Britain.

Let us pray for him and for his loved ones.

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Visit of Madame Florence Mangin, Ambassador of France to the Holy See to the Generalate

 

On Thursday 6th June 2024, Madame Florence Mangin, Ambassador of France to the Holy See, and Father Bernard Planche, the Embassy’s ecclesiastical counsellor, honoured us with an official visit at the Generalate. This meeting was intended to establish a first contact, for a better mutual knowledge and to discuss the activities of our Missionary Society as well as those of the French Embassy to the Holy See.

The visit began with a meeting with the General Council. This exchange provided an opportunity to address the various aspects of our charism, our mission and the challenges we face in the Mission to the African world. Afterwards, the Ambassador and Father Bernard Planche took the chance to discover our Generalate. They visited the archives, where precious documents tracing the history of our Society’s missions are kept, the photo library, which provides a visual record of our mission and commitment in Africa for over a century, and the library, which has a vast collection of books and documents related to the African continent. The visit ended with a moment of silence and prayer in the crypt where the founder of the Society of the Missionaries of Africa, Cardinal Charles Lavigerie, is laid to rest.

We wish Madame Florence Mangin a lot of strength in her responsibilities and in her mission to the Holy See, and we assure her of our prayers. May this meeting be the beginning of a fruitful and enriching collaboration between the French Embassy to the Holy See and the Society of the Missionaries of Africa.

By: Pawel Hulecki, M.Afr.
Assistant General

Formation session on safeguarding of minors and persons in situation of vulnerability, June 2024

Paul De Vinck R.I.P.

Society of the Missionaries of Africa

Father Yvo Wellens, Provincial Delegate of the sector of Belgium,
informs you of the return to the Lord of Father

Paul De Vinck

on Saturday, 1st June 2024 in Brugge (Belgium)
at the age of 93 years, of which 68 years of missionary life
in DR Congo, and Belgium.

Let us pray for him and for his loved ones.

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60th anniversary of the canonisation of the Ugandan Martyrs

Namungongo 2019

Canonisation: “Be holy as your heavenly Father is holy” (1 Pt. 1:15-17)

This year we celebrate the 60th anniversary of the canonisation of the Ugandan Martyrs. They were canonised by Pope Paul VI on the 18th October 1964 in St. Peter’s, Rome. We thank and praise the Lord for the gift of our Martyrs and the many fruits that we have received and are still receiving from the story of their lives, martyrdom and canonisation, especially the spiritual and moral fruits.

The Catholic Church in Uganda, led by Nebbi Diocese, will celebrate this anniversary on the 3rd June 2024, under the theme: “As for me and my household, we shall serve the Lord.(Joshua 24: 15). Some dioceses and ecclesiastical provinces have their respective arrangements to celebrate this anniversary. For example, Kampala Ecclesiastical Province (Masaka, Kiyinda-Mityana, Kasana-Luweero, Lugazi and Kampala), will celebrate it on the 15th November 2024 at Munyonyo. The Archdiocese itself has organised a peregrination of the relics of Charles Lwanga and Matia Mulumba in all the parishes in the Archdiocese, under the theme: “We, the baptised, let us journey together in communion, participation and mission, following in the footsteps of the Ugandan Martyrs.”

Saints in the Church remind us of our common vocation as human beings created in the image of God (Gn. 1: 27) and as baptised: “To be holy as our heavenly Father is holy.” (Leviticus 11: 44; 1 Peter 1: 15-17). And the visibility of this holiness is in the works of mercy: “Be merciful as your Father is merciful.” (Lk 6: 36)

The canonisation of the Ugandan Martyrs reminds us of the universality (catholicity) of the Church and Sainthood. It reminds us that ‘holiness’ is not a monopoly of any race, tribe or nationality. It confirms St. Peter’s teaching that: “God does not have favourites; but anybody of any nationality who fears God and does what is right is acceptable to him.” (Acts 10: 34-35; Romans 2: 11)

The day of 18th October, therefore, is to be annually celebrated as a day of hope that we too can be holy as our heavenly Father is holy. The Ugandan Martyrs are a sign of that hope.

The Martyrs’ journey to Canonisation

The Ugandan Martyrs were beatified in 1920, 34 years after of the holocaust at Namugongo. It took another 44 years before they were canonised in 1964. These 44 years between their beatification and canonisation was a big test and trial to the faith of the believers but especially of those who had been entrusted with the ministry of promoting the Martyrs’ devotion and to pray for miracles through their intercession.

Then, out of blue, God brought in Pope John XXIII! He was Pope from 28th October 1958 to 3rd June 1963. It is thanks to him that the file of the beatified martyrs which had been shelved for almost forty years was re-opened in 1958 and within six years the martyrs were canonised by his successor, Pope Paul VI, the first Pope to visit Africa south of the Sahara in 1969. This visit was made to Uganda from 31st July to 2nd August.

The timing of the canonisation of the Ugandan Martyrs was God-chosen. It was during the Vatican II Council. It was also the time when many of the African countries were becoming independent. Uganda itself got its independence in 1962. In his homily during the canonisation, Pope Paul VI said: “Africa has been re-born free.” That message echoed the spirit of Vatican II which was considered to have been an occasion of a rebirth of the church, the “opening of the windows of the Church to let in fresh air!” As we celebrate the diamond jubilee of the canonisation of these Martyrs, we have to ask ourselves, how much the African continent has been truly reborn-free in these past sixty years. How have the Ugandan/African Martyrs been a source of inspiration and challenge for Christian men and women in promoting that freedom dreamt of by Pope Paul VI? Realising that that dream is far from being a reality in many parts of Africa, how can we take this 60th anniversary of their canonisation as an opportune time to once again dream together with the late Pope Paul VI, now a saint, of a true rebirth and freedom of Africa?

Uganda: Pearl of Africa and Land of the Martyrs

Ugandans often proudly refer to their Motherland as “the Pearl of Africa”, an attribute which was given to it by Winston Churchill (1874-1965; a former prime minster of the United Kingdom) when he visited Africa in 1907. Those who have widely travelled and visited other African countries will agree with Churchill’s appreciation of the beauty of our country. The challenge Ugandans have today is to make our country more beautiful. Unfortunately, we seem to be doing the contrary on many fronts!

In 1963, the year before the canonisation of the Ugandan Martyrs, Sr. Marie André du Sacré Coeur (MSOLA) wrote a book with the title: “Uganda, the Land of the Martyrs” (Uganda, terre de martyrs, 1963). Another precious attribute given to our Motherland Uganda!

Uganda as “the Pearl of Africa” annually attracts thousands of tourists and tourism is one of the major sources of our national income. However, there is no doubt that Uganda is mostly known to the outside world because of its Black Martyrs! Three Popes have come to this country not as tourists, but as pilgrims to the Land of the Black Martyrs or the African Martyrs as they also called them. Each one of these three popes, has “kissed the soil of our motherland to plant a special kiss of peace” in it, because of the blood of the Martyrs which watered it! Today, there is no feast or event in this country which brings together a crowd as big and as international as that on the Martyrs’ Day of 3rd June!

Meditating on Uganda as “the Pearl of Africa and Land of the Martyrs”, Pope Francis had this to say:

“Uganda was watered with the blood of martyrs, of witnesses. Today it is necessary to continue watering it for new challenges, new testimonies, new missions. If not, you’re going to lose the great richness that you have. And the “Pearl of Africa” will end up being on display in a museum.” (Lubaga, 28th November 2015)

This observation of the Holy Father is for us real food for thought and prayer!

Uganda Martyrs’ Guild

The Uganda Martyrs’ Guild (Association), founded by Bishop Henry Streicher (M.Afr.), was officially recognised by Rome in 1930. It is one of the very few associations of Catholic Action born on the soil of Uganda. Its objective was to continue the evangelising mission of the Ugandan Martyrs, aiming especially at strengthening Catholic family life and rehabilitating social morals and values.

Unfortunately, this guild has been dormant for many years and is unknown to many Ugandan Catholics of today! However, we also note with joy that in these past years, there has been a desire among some church leaders and lay faithful to revive this association as one of the means of involving the Christians in the ‘New-Evangelization’. We are even more challenged and encouraged by the Knights of St. Matia Mulumba in Nigeria, a very vibrant and active association getting its inspiration from its patron saint.

Annually, around 3rd June, there is “A BIG SPIRITUAL FIRE” of the Ugandan Martyrs burning in our country and outside. During this time, televisions, radios, newspapers, homilies, etc., loudly remind us of the story of the Ugandan Martyrs. But what happens to this big fire after 3rd June? Isn’t it sad to note that that fire burns out immediately after 3rd June?

In Luganda we have a proverb which says that: “Oguliko omuseesa, teguzikira.” (Fire that has a poker [stirrer] does not go out). Part of the mission of the revived Ugandan Martyrs’ Guild would be to ensure that this fire lit around 3rd June is kept burning till the next 3rd June. Its members would be the “pokers” (abaseesa) of this annual big fire of 3rd June. Revival of this guild / association in all our dioceses would be not only a very significant souvenir of this 60th anniversary of the canonisation of the Ugandan Martyrs, but also a precious gift given to those we proudly call our Ancestors in Faith.

Canonisation: a source of joy, inspiration and challenge

The key message from the reflections made by the different Missionaries of Africa about the Ugandan Martyrs, their martyrdom, beatification and canonisation, is well expressed in this Luganda proverb which says that: “Ne gw’ozaala akukubira eηηoma n’ozina”. (Even your child might beat the drum for you while you dance). The canonisation of the Ugandan Martyrs is for us, and for the Church in Africa, a source of joy and inspiration, but also a challenge.

Fr. Simeon Lourdel Mapeera, who knew well these martyrs, baptised half of them, and blessed them as they were leaving Munyonyo for Namugongo, wrote these words when he received the remains of Charles Lwanga, five months after the holocaust:

“We pray that these precious relics of one of the first Ugandan Martyrs, inspire and instill in us new courage and enthusiasm to work for the conversion of these people and also remind us that God, if He wills, can raise  children for Abraham out of stones (Mt. 3: 9).” (Nalukolongo – 4th November 1886)

Our Founder Cardinal Lavigerie, even before the cause of their beatification was presented to Rome, invited our predecessors to “admire and imitate their courage”. At the occasion of their beatification in 1920, the Superior General, Msgr Leon Livinhac, also the founding father of the Catholic Church in Uganda wrote: “The beatification of the Uganda Martyrs will herald a notable spiritual renewal in the supernatural life of our Society; the beginning, so to speak, of a new era of piety, zeal, generosity and regularity, remarkable, therefore, for saintly labours which will give great glory to God and bring Him thousands of souls.”  Then, at the occasion of their canonisation in 1964, the Superior General, Fr. Leo Volker, wrote: “Few events have been loaded with such significance for the Society and all the African Missions…..” And, in the same letter, he quoted word by word the above quotation from Msgr Livinhac. Speaking about the joy that this canonisation was going to bring to the missionaries and to the Church in Africa, he said:

“Nevertheless, this joy will abound especially in the African Church, and particularly in the Church in Uganda. Rightly, also, we White Fathers will have our part in it, being in all humility legitimately proud that divine Providence chose to use our Society to bring forth in the Faith the souls of these Martyrs. Our joy will bring us renewed courage, and increased confidence in the future of the African Church. If the Christians of the first generation, less than seven years after the arrival of the first missionaries were able with the grace of God to shed their blood for the Christian Faith, who will doubt of the wonders that the same grace can operate today in the souls of their brethren?”

The above reflections of our predecessors, invite us together with the Church in Africa to make the martyrs the source of our joy and inspiration but also to see in them the challenge to be more courageous and zealous in our missionary work. On the eve of the canonisation, Fr. Leo Volker noted that: “in all humility it is legitimate to be proud that divine Providence chose to use our Society to bring forth in the Faith the souls of these Martyrs.” What does this remark imply today for our Society and Mission?

The Missionaries of Africa in Uganda are privileged to be the guardian of two key sites related to the Ugandan Martyrs: Nabulagala where a majority of the martyrs started their catechism instructions and four of them were baptised: Joseph Mukasa Balikuddembe, Andrew Kaggwa, Mathias Mulumba and Luka Baanabakintu; and it is also the resting place of their spiritual fathers, the pioneer missionaries in Uganda. Then Namugongo where the leader of the “Abasomi” (Christians), Charles Lwanga, was martyred and which has also become the sign and symbol par excellence of all the Ugandan Martyrs. In the Church, privilege comes with the burden of service and responsibility. What specific service and responsibility does this privilege give to our Society in general and to those confreres appointed there?

By: Richard Nnyombi, M.Afr.

Namungongo 2019

Happy are the peacemakers

JDPMC of Osogbo meets politicians for dialogue on women participation in politics

Education or the culture of peace is putting into practice, day after day, values, attitudes and behaviours that help society rid itself of all patterns of life that lead to violence, conflict, war, tribalism and racism.

Centres for justice, development and peace

In Nigeria, each diocese has taken the initiative to establish its own Justice, Development and Peace Centre to facilitate education and the culture of peace. The Diocese of Osogbo, in south-west Nigeria, also has a Justice, Development and Peace Makers Centre (JDPMC). This centre’s mission is to promote justice, sustainable development and peace, leading to the transformation of the world. Its coordinator is one of the diocesan priests, assisted by another priest, 18 staff members, five administrative staff, three assistants and four drivers. According to the coordinator’s 2023 Annual Report, the centre focused on inclusive and credible elections, defended the rights of the weak, helped vulnerable people through campaigning against violence against the disabled. It also promoted the role of women in the governance of Osun State, peaceful cohabitation, rural development and food security. Furthermore, it campaigned for mass enrolment before the 2023 elections and organised sessions in the various communities in Osun State to ensure peaceful cohabitation and security.

The Justice, Development and Peace Commission has also done a lot to promote justice and human rights. For example, it received 43 complaints relating to violence, 70% of which concerned gender-based violence; it intervened on behalf of 17 prisoners in various courts; 10 criminal cases were concluded, and 3 people were released from prison; it also intervened for the release of vehicles and other belongings confiscated by the police; it has advised people in different parts of the diocese and Osun State; seven cases of child abuse were prosecuted; children arrested by the national police were released; finally, it has set up justice, development and peace commissions in different parishes. 

Peace and development are inseparable.

The inseparable nature of development and peace is best explained by Paul VI’s words to the UN on its 20th anniversary: “Never again war! Peace is necessary, the inescapable condition of humanity, and this is the ultimate reality that is emerging”. The Pope defined peace as “the reflection of God’s plan for the progress of human society on earth” (cf. Lucien Guissard, Vers la nouvelle histoire, La Croix, 6 October 1965).

Therefore, no one can ignore or refute that peace and integral development are strictly inseparable. Peace is the key to progress; without peace, there can be no prosperous economy. Development projects such as education, trade, agriculture and infrastructure construction, can only be carried out, when and where there is peace.

Attitudes for the peaceful resolution of conflicts

How long will we keep repeating the psalm: love and truth meet, justice and peace embraced (Psalm 85:11)? If we don’t get to the root causes of conflict in love and justice, we will simply be “beating around the bush”. To resolve conflicts, mediation and dialogue must be based on love, justice and peace, in order to move forward in life. At Ejigbo, for example, to resolve conflicts between individuals, families and groups, we bring them together for dialogue so that they can see the consequences of violence; at the same time, we help them reach a consensus in love and truth. Above all, we invite them to simplicity, respect, love, truth, forgiveness, mutual help, refusal of corruption, violence and manipulation of young people, and impartiality on the part of pastoral workers.

Missionaries of Africa’s contribution to peace

In our Sector here in Nigeria, I cannot overlook the contribution of the Missionaries of Africa to education and the culture of peace. Since peace is linked to the rights of all human beings and restores them to a dignified life, our Sector participates in peace education by living out the charism of the Society; we strongly advise parish communities to set up a JPIC-ED commission in collaboration with the diocesan commission. In our own parishes, we have set up justice, development and peace groups whose members meet once a month and report back to the parish council.  

The Gospel, the main tool for promoting peace in the world

Peace is central to the Christian faith. And the Gospel is the most excellent tool for promoting it. We cannot talk about Jesus without talking about peace because “Christ is our peace” (Ephesians 2:14); “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God” (Matthew 5:9). It is a call and a challenge that Jesus made to all Christians. Jesus sends us out as his disciples with the instruction that “in every house you enter, first say, ‘Peace to this house'” (Luke 10:5). The first word of the risen Jesus to the apostles was “peace” (Luke 24:36; John 20:21). In John 14:27, Jesus says: “I do not give you peace as the world gives”, because his peace eliminates evil and violence of this world right down to its roots.

The Eucharist, another tool for the culture of peace

The peace of Jesus – not that of the world – is always shared at Mass. The Eucharistic celebration is an education in the culture of peace. Right from the start the participants are offered peace, “Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ”, and at the end they are invited to “go in the peace of Christ”. Before the invitation to greet one another, the principal celebrant always prays as follows: “Lord Jesus Christ, you said to your Apostles: ‘Peace I leave you; my peace I give you’…”; then he wishes the participants “the peace of the Lord be with you always” and invites them, “Let us offer each other the sign of peace”. Yes, the Eucharistic celebration is an opportunity to instil peace.

By: Pierre Chanel Ulama, M.Afr.

Education for a culture of peace through endogenous values and mechanisms

Kôrêdugaw at Sénoufo Centre

With the multiplicity of values proposed for our society today, it is no longer easy to define education. With the current tendency to relativise everything, how can we determine the appropriate education or distinguish between right and wrong? In this article, concerning the values and practices of the Senoufo people of yesteryear, we propose endogenous values and mechanisms as a possible way of inculcating a culture of peace.

The Senoufos of old

In the past, in Mali, as in several other Black African communities, a child’s education aimed to make the youngster a full member of the community, aware of their rights and duties towards society. This period of education is called “initiation”. For the Senufo people, initiation is an opportunity to pass the child the values necessary for integration into the community. They are taught the history of their village, the art of living, the art of governing, pharmacopoeia, how to fabricate work instruments or tools, and exercises to develop stamina. In other words, for the Senufo people, initiation is a social contract between society and the individual. It is a sort of university where a member of society receives the enlightenment that transforms him from his animal state (pre-social state) to the human state (human nature).

Similarly, to ensure the continuity and social harmony of the community, every adult must participate in the integral education of the child. Thus, the Senufo child of yesteryear belonged to the whole of society, and their education was a communal task. According to Holas Bohumil [“Les Senoufo (y compris les Minianka)”, l’Harmatan, Paris, 1957], initiation among the Senoufo consisted of providing technical and philosophical formation for citizens so that they would be dignified by a social order based on specific values. For Roland Colin [Kénédougou, “Visage du monde des Sénoufo du Nord au tournant de l’histoire”, in: Sénoufo du Mali, Paris, Revue Noire Éditions, 2006, pp. 80-87], this kind of education was the most complete unifying system ensuring social order between generations, between the sexes, between humans and genies. In short, the aim was a holistic education: the education of each individual person and the whole person”. The ultimate aim of education in the past was primarily to ensure harmony, including peace, within the community and between communities.

To achieve this, traditional society had shared values and mechanisms that enabled it to distinguish between good and evil and to build a peaceful society. For example, among the Senoufo, the Great Hornbill (Zhigban / Zhigbannawo in Senoufo) is the bird symbolic of a successful education. The Great Hornbill symbolises fertility, wisdom and security through its ritual virtue. Its shape makes each of its limbs a melting pot of appropriate teachings for young initiates:

-Its large head symbolises “good memory”: the young initiate must be able to retain the teachings.

-Its closed beak, resting on its belly, represents the mastery of its language: the young initiate must master his language, be discreet and above all, be careful not to reveal what he has learnt in the sacred grove.

-The hornbill’s spread wings show that it is prepared to fly. This is advice that the young initiate should always be ready to work; it’s a way of saying to him, ‘Don’t beg but feed yourself! ‘

-The straight legs are symbols of the uprightness and honesty that the initiate must embrace: he must not lie, steal or commit adultery.

The situation today

The situation is bitter. It is a fact that several young people today have no bearing! They are at odds with their cultural roots and societal values, which are at the root of many conflicts that undermine our society today. Ignorant of codes of ethics, citizenship, and patriotism, young people are often victims of ideological and financial manipulation, easily recruited into banditry, delinquency, and scenes of extremism.

These days, we helplessly witness the lack of majestic values and teaching mechanisms in the image of those attributed to the Great Hornbill. We note, however, that the current situation of war and inter-community conflict in Mali has awakened the conscience of several religious, political, and traditional leaders. Malian society, in particular, is becoming increasingly aware that effective education and the sustainable and respectful development of any human society depend, first and foremost, on the understanding of one’s own culture.

The Church in Mali, in general, and the Missionaries of Africa Society, in particular, are not left on the sidelines. They contribute and participate in the awakening of consciences and a culture of peace and social cohesion while constantly promoting the endogenous mechanisms of our cultures, mainly through the ministry of inculturation. For example, the strategic pastoral plans of almost all the dioceses in Mali place particular emphasis on rebuilding the social order based on the values of our own cultures. This is both an invitation to rediscover the values of our cultural practices and a call for responses informed by Gospel values.

Malian society’s cultural richness and endogenous mechanisms are invaluable and can be genuine vectors for consolidating peace and peaceful coexistence. For example, several Malian communities have endogenous mechanisms such as sinankunya (a joking relationship), maaya (humanism), jatigiya (hospitality) and koreduganya (a traditional brotherhood responsible for conflict prevention and management). These are just some of the ways and means that have unfortunately been torn apart by the violence that has plagued Mali for over ten years. Now more than ever, the Church is called upon to rediscover these endogenous values and mechanisms and propose ways of evangelising that are more accessible to its contemporaries, especially the cream of our society, our young people.

The Centre Culturel Sénoufo in Sikasso (CRSPCS), the Centre d’Etude de Langue (CEL) in Faladjé – Kolokani, the Institut de Formation Islamo-chrétienne (IFIC) and the Centre Foi et Rencontre (CFR) in Bamako, the fruit of initiatives by the Missionaries of Africa, are among the platforms for learning and deepening these societal values of peaceful coexistence. The existence of these structures is not only a palpable testimony to the Church’s desire to rebuild the social order scorned by violence but also to allow Malian society to deepen its knowledge of others in their differences.

By: Bruno Ssennyondo, M.Afr.

Senoufo Centre and IFIC with the Muslim community at Sikasso
Calao

A hybrid webinar on the Uganda Martyrs and the impact of their canonisation on the Church Mission in Africa

Fr. Francis Bomansaan Bishop of Wa, Ghana

Official communication

As officially announced at noon today, the Holy Father
has appointed our confrere Father
Francis BOMANSAAN Bishop of the Diocese of Wa, Ghana.
On behalf of the Superior General, currently meeting in Assisi, the General
Council and all the confreres, our sincere congratulations to Francis and the
assurance of our prayers and of our fraternal support
in his new service of the Church.

Rome, 22 May 2024

P. André-Léon SIMONART,
General Secretary.

Jealousy, a major obstacle on the road to peace

The first murder in human history was caused by jealousy. Cain killed his brother. The word “sin” appears here for the first time in the Bible! This is significant! “Original sin” is not the sin of Adam and Eve. The first sin was between human beings. The first sin was to allow violence born of jealousy and a refusal to accept differences to thrive.

The villain in a comic book I read as a child kept grumbling: “I want to be a vizier instead of a vizier!” And imagining a whole series of methods to achieve it. On a less dramatic note, a confrere said: “I had to wait 27 years before being appointed parish priest, whereas he…” Yes, so what? Yes, but so what? Why is he called to study, and I’m not? All too often, our prolific imagination leads us down the wrong path. We don’t always have the correct elements to judge decisions by those in charge or God! 

Cain and Abel are two brothers, though very different. When the time came to offer God the first fruits of their labours, the first of their produce, a tragedy occurred: God accepted Abel’s offering but rejected that of Cain. God did not reject Cain, only the offering he made. Cain experienced inequality and reacted strongly: his jealousy gave rise to anger.

God tells Cain to pull himself together. But Cain is jealous of Abel without trying to understand; he does not ask God to explain his choice but sees that his brother has received something he does not have. And this is when jealousy is born: desiring what the other has – possessions, recognition, success, talents – feeling sorry for them, and harbouring envy and even hatred towards them, a hatred that can lead to violence. According to the author of Genesis, this violence stems from the fact that man cannot tolerate difference, which he sees as inequality and injustice, for which God himself is responsible.

In one of his Teachings in 2017, the Pope emphasised that the enmities between us all begin with something tiny, but then they grow, and we see life only from this perspective. So much so that our lives revolve around it, destroying the bond of brotherhood. What happened to Cain can happen to all of us,” he says. That’s why the process must be stopped immediately. “Many rifts begin this way even in our presbyteries,” he continues, “in our episcopal conferences”. And in our Society?

The source of jealousy

The jealous person experiences all forms of sharing as unfair and, above all, as immensely frustrating. They desire nothing but everything, especially what has been given to others. They have no particular desire to receive but to possess. He does not believe in what he has received because the other is always an obstacle to his joy.

They refuse to accept the life given to them. They want what is given to the other. Since they are unaware of this, they see themselves as “rejected”. He is not aware that he is refusing life. He justifies his refusal by rejecting the other person and himself. It’s an “all or nothing” question for the jealous person. If the other person is alive, then I am excluded from life. It’s either him or me.

A culture of peace requires a good understanding of Jealousy

Our human relationships are marked by jealousy. We are all affected by this feeling, though at different levels. And the first thing to do if we want to deal with it more effectively is to be aware of it. We can do nothing about the jealousy born in our hearts, this “mimetic desire” (the desire to be like the other person, in a way denying our differences), which unfortunately comes to us despite us. However, we can always “lift our heads” like God told Cain to do; in other words, we can take a step back from what we possess and what others possess, whether in terms of possessions, qualities, talents, or history.

Allow me to share a personal experience with you. During a session on jealousy at Le Chatelard, I recognised a deadly jealousy in me that made me reconsider certain attitudes from my past. I understood the origin of certain sadness, influenced by a strong imagination. Little by little, I recognised the point where the evil tended to get the better of me: “Careful, Georges, you’re stepping out of reality. You’re imagining things, and you’re getting jealous! To break away from this, I voluntarily tried to favour the person I was jealous of: “Vade retro, Satanas!

The world forces us to compare and, very often, trapped by a destructive imagination, to move away from reality. I need to return to the reality of the humanity of the other person I was jealous of. He’s a man with gifts but also with weaknesses. I am also called upon to discover my riches and what makes me come alive so that the other person does not stop me from living.

Many conflicts between states, brothers or confreres arise from an unmanaged jealousy fuelled by our destructive imagination. To escape this impasse, we must leave behind the imaginary relationship of “him or me” and integrate “him and me”. The way out of jealousy is alterity. It’s “him and me”. You have the right to be happy. I have the right to be happy in the positive appreciation of our differences.

By: Georges Jacques, M.Afr.